AC/DC

Person who enjoys both same and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual, "swing both ways"

ADULT
Euphemism for pornographic.

ALL CULTURES
Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)

ANAL
Anal intercourse activities.

ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures

B&D
Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)

BI
Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC), "swing both ways"

BIZARRE
Unusual sexual desires; Way out

BONDAGE
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."

CAN ENTERTAIN
Someone willing to invite others to their home for swinging.

CAN TRAVEL
Advertiser will travel to your home to swing.

CANING
A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.

CLEAN
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.


CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging activities. The rooms are almost ways in the same house.

CLOSET SWINGER
This person hides the he/she is a swinger.

COMMUNITY MEMBER
A person who believes that swinging is more than just recreational sex but rather sees it as a lifestyle.

COUPLE/CPL
In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.

CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish, Arts

CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth.  Eating pussy, box, etc. (see FRENCH CULTURE)

DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.

DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.

DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.

DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).

DOMESTIC TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.

DOMINANT
The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner.

ENTERTAIN
(see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST

A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.

F
Female

FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.

FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.

FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.

FUN AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity.

GAY
A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.

GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.  A way that escorts discreetly advertise in swingers ads.

GROUP ROOM
Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).

GROUP SEX
Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more people.

GROWTH SWINGING
Social-sexual environment that promotes emotional, personal and social growth.

HARDCORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.

HARD SWINGING
(see HARD CORE)

HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head"

HEDONIST (Swinging)
Euphemism for a swinger; Lives for pleasure.

HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.

HOMOSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)

HORNY
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.

HOST
Willing to provide the place for you to meet i.e. at a hotel, their home, etc (a host)

HUMANIST
Person who believes in human values, potential, self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and human rights.

HUNG (Well hung)
Refers to a man with a large penis.

INDOOR SPORTS
Swinging activities in general.

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.

LESBIAN
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women (see GAY)

MARITAL AIDS
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

MASOCHISM
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MASTER/SLAVE
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)

MEET FOR PLEASURE
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

MENAGE A' TROIS
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants. {see THREESOME, TRIAD)

MORESOMES
More than three people in a swinging interaction.

NEWCOMERS
New people in swinging; First-timers, newbies

NONSMOKER
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.

OPEN DOOR
(see OPEN SWINGING)

OPEN SWINGING
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S ) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party.

ORAL-GENITAL
(see CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)

ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.

PARTY
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.

PARTY CLOTHES
Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.

PARTY HOUSE (Western US)
A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.

PASSIVE
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive.